wen di was telling me one of his friend, (not that close but still know who is he), had an accident in club/pub/smth. he was saying he didnt go cox he was too tired or smth so he skipped. i thought what accident, asked whether it was car accident or like drugs, get caught or smth, but he didnt reply. as i was too busy these fews days i didnt get to go online, still figuring out what will it be.
THEN TODAY! on the newspaper. my mom called me and say: i thought your friend is in jiamusi. some kid from singapore poly died!! then i was like: i know this incident but DIE!?!?!!!?! really shocking news. HAIZ.
Here's the news: 疑争风吃醋引杀机，19岁狮城理工生到黑龙江实习，约女郎去歌厅，竟遇袭被刺身亡。
im not sure whether they sent him to the hospital on time but definitely dragged.
just imagine how your parents would feel. i mean you spend so much money to go over there for attachment, supposely to be a god thing to have attachment oveseas but then accident happen to you. not minor, MAJOR!! you actually DIE THERE. not an incident that cannot be avoided, eg, NATURAL DISASTER. you actuallyneed to have that conflict with THAT stranger. so you think you are a cool 19 years old kid. just wondering why none of his friends did anything to stop the conflict or the kid.
now he's father, 白发人送黑发人.... to go all the way to jiamusi to bring back his body. HAIZ. 19 years old. not even 20 yet. fighting over a lady is really (to me) ... silly. in addition, it's not even like he know her for a very long time. =.= im really speechless.
so.. treasure your life. R.I.P
CW,LK : Please take care of yourself over there! >.<
A great note for all to read it will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking. Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window.
The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."
Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy. "Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."
maybe im just bored in office. :\ HAHAA. some nice stories i found in my email. (: . . .
. . . AND i thought this was interesting. (some may have read it before....) Can you read this?
Olny srmat poelpe can. cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt!
;9/16/2009 04:45:00 PM
you wouldnt believe what i have been writing in the office when i blank out. HAHA.
i wrote something like...
if you remember what you say you will know you are actually in the wrong! so dont try to convince me or something like that because unless you realise you are in the wrong, nobody will admit!no wonder you want us to find us.
HAHAHAHA! dont ask me what i mean. i didnt know.LOL.
and something like that...
PLEASE talk to my hands!you are helpless, hopeless, useless.please dont make any unnecessary conversation with me!i wont reply any! GIVE UP!
HAHAHAHAHHAA. seriously. this is funny.. (what i wrote) was just practising my words.lol. i like to write for fun. waste inks. HAHAHAHA! then i will start to write in chinese. HAHAHHAHAHA!!
诶听说吗? 如果有的话,我就告诉你了阿~ 有病阿~ 他们还好而已 (i think i was talking to someone! HAHAHAHA!) 我们都能够明白的 没听你说过任何你家的事?!
HAHAHAHHAHHAHA! seriously. i can go on for a few more paragraphs. XD
im quite demanding on paper. HAHAHAHHAA!
i said... looking at your work i dont think you are able to support me.UNDERSTAND!
HAHAHAHA. i think im crazy in office. :(
and i actually learn a new word; MOOT (无实际意义;毫无意义) IM FANTASTIC! XD
okay enough of crapping. back to work. a few sections to cut. i need to overcome this "section fear" thing.
LOVE <3 `wish me good health!XD`
;9/11/2009 03:07:00 PM
VERY RANDOM. BUT IF YOUR FAMILY HAS THIS PROBLEM. DONT MIND TRYING RIGHT! HAHA. XD
;9/08/2009 05:29:00 PM
'Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.'
A sharp tongue can cut your own throat.
If you want your dreams to come true, you mustn't oversleep.
Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.
The best vitamin for making friends..... B1.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.
The heaviest thing you can carry is a grudge.
One thing you can give and still keep...is your word.
You lie the loudest when you lie to yourself If you lack the courage to start, you have already finished. One thing you can't recycle is wasted time. Ideas won't work unless ' You' do.
Your mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open..
The 10 commandments are not a multiple choice.
The pursuit of happiness is the chase of a lifetime! It is never too late to become what you might have been.
Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right.. Forget about the one's who don't. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.
Friends are like balloons; once you let them go, you might not get them back. Sometimes we get so busy with our own lives and problems that we may not even notice that we've let them fly away. Sometimes we are so caught up in who's right and who's wrong that we forget what's right and wrong. Sometimes we just don't realize what real friendship means until it is too late. I don't want to let that happen so I'm gonna tie you to my heart so I never lose you.
;9/04/2009 05:37:00 PM
1. Drink plenty of water. 2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar. 3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants. 4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy. 5. Make time for prayer. 6. Play more games. 7. Read more books than you did i! n 2008. 8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. 9. Sleep for 7 hours. 10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment. 13. Don't over do. Keep your limits. 14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip. 16. Dream more while you are awake. 17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happine! ss. 19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others. 20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present. 21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. 23. Smile and laugh more. 24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
25. Call your family often. 26. Each day give something good to others. 27. Forgive everyone for everything. 28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6. 29. Try to make at least three people smile each day. 30. What other people think of you is none of your business. 31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
32. Do the right thing! 33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 34. GOD heals everything. 35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 37. The best is yet to come. 38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it. 39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least.
40. pass it on. Lol.
love you people. haha. LOVE <3
;9/03/2009 04:31:00 PM
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