The love that never change.

20110305

很多情侶，都敗給了距離
many couples lost to the distance ......

1、短信听不到语气，电话看不到表情。
其实我没生气，你当真了；我在笑呢，你看不到吧；
我哭了呢，抱着手机哭倦了睡过又醒了，你在忙吗 ?
no tones coming out from messages, cant see no expressions from phone calls.
i wasnt angry but you took it seriously; im laughing, but you cant see it;
i cried, hugged my phone, fall aslp and woke up, were you busy?

2、共同语言。
如果两个人在一起，两个人的交往圈会融为共同的圈子，话题永远都在更新。
而不在一起的两个人，对彼此身边的环境都会因陌生而逐渐失去兴趣。
慢慢的，能说的话只有空洞的 ‘我想你’ 。
我在努力找话题呢，不要回信说 ‘哦、嗯、好’ 了好吗 ?
same language.
if two person were together, their cirlces will gradually becomes the same, always changing new topics.
if two werent together, soon the environment around will seems strange and soon lose interest.
slowly, all we can say is i miss you.. :(
im trying to look for a topic here, dont reply "oh, ok, can, yes." okay?

3、沒安全感。
看了10次手机了，你还是没有回信。
你在哪、和谁、在干什么 ?
刚刚拒绝了别人的好意，却禁不住想，
你身边的莺莺燕燕，一如我身边的花花草草吗 ?
checked my phone 10 times, there's still no reply.
where are you, with who, doing what?

4、远水不救近火。
我这里下雨了，来送伞的是同学的弟弟；
我吃饭忘带钱了，来解围的是朋友的朋友。
原来你不吭声是因为你生病了，
可我再担忧，也不能在你身边端一杯水…
it's raining here, a friend's brother sent me an umbrella;
i forgot my money during lunch, a friend's friend came to the rescue.
so i now i know why you didnt talk, it's because you are sick,
but no matter how much im worried about you, i cant even be there to pour you a glass of water..... :(

5、距离产生幻觉。
其实我有些小虚荣，照片有时候修掉了眼袋才给你看；
其实你有些小自负，认定了的事情就以为自己一定对。
为了大老远的爱你，我拒绝接受身边一切说你不好的言论，什么都往好的方向想。
你也是吧 ?
其实我们都不是对方想象的那样好……
to love you from far away, i rejected every bad comment said, look at a brighter side for everything. you too right?
actually we are not as good as what each other think?

6、距离产生误会。
我兴冲冲地发短信给你讲刚刚的趣事，你隔了半天说 ‘噢’，
我不知道你在忙的嘛，所以我生闷气了。
你给我发了八条短信两个电话我也没回，愤怒得嗷嗷直叫，
我在做上课呢，手机调振动了的嘛。
其实我们都知道对方不是故意的，但情绪来了，总需要宣泄的。
i excitedly send you a message to tell you about something exciting, you replied, oh after a long while.
im not sure what you are busy with, so i sulked.
actually we know we didnt meant it that way, but when the emotion comes, we have to vent our anger somewhere.

7、善意的谎言。
我碰巧和相熟的男生去看电影了，想了想，对你说和女生去的。
你独自去了我们约好要一起去的地方，犹豫再三，对我说你哪都没去。
不愿让对方多想，却因为偶尔的疏忽，让对方想得更多。
we do not wan each other to think too much, but because of occasional negligence, we let each other think even more.

8、寂寞。
一个人不寂寞，想念一个人才寂寞。
你说，来，抱抱。于是我把自己裹在被窝里，闭上眼，恩，抱抱。
一个人站在夜空下时，你会抬头看月亮吗 ?
it is not lonely being alone, thinking of someone is lonely.
you said, come, hug me. so i hide myself in my blanket, close my eyes, yes i hugged you.
when you are standing under the dark sky, would you raise your head to look at the moon?

9、信念坍塌。
我看到身边一对一对的，男生帮女生打开水送饭，
在宿舍楼下卿卿我我，周末还能一起爬山，
没忍住就对在地图对角线上的你发牢骚，
其实是想听你的鼓励，想听听你的安慰，你的一个电话就能让我安心。
可也许刚刚好你接到朋友异地恋分手倾诉的电话，
那么容易就把自己带入了戏，无心的抱怨雪上加霜。
有时候折腾一下，只为了证明自己的重要性。
哪知脆弱基础上的高楼只须多压上一根头发的重量，也许就崩溃了。
i watched every couple around me, girls get meal delivery from the guys.
affectionate under school hostels, hiking on weekends,
and you start to grumble when you cant control yourself,
all i want was your encouragement, your console, one phone call of yourswould make me feel safe.
but maybe just at that same moment, you received a friend's overseas call complaining about his broke up.
easily brought your emotion into drama, a heartless complaint make it worst.
sometimes just a little toss, just to prove your importance.
but nobody knows that maybe just one more strand of hair, the high rise building on this weak foundation, would just collapse.... :(

10、你的真心。
人心隔肚皮，更何况我们还隔着千山万水。
男生永远无法理解女生为什么需要浓浓的表达爱意，
正如我永远不知道你为何可以那样轻轻的表明心意。
our heart is just separated by our belly. moreover we are separated thousands of miles away.
guys would never understand why girls need deep affections.
likewise, girls will never know why guys can lightly declare their mind....

didnt know it would hurt so much........

;3/05/2011 10:54:00 am